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Park Sun-joo, 'separated from Kang Leo', appeals for single parenting
Before the actual consultation, Park Seon-joo reveals that she has recently been raising her children alone in Jeju Island. Since her husband, Chef Leo Kang, is based in Cheonan, she has no choice but to live as a life manager for her daughter Kang Sol Amy. Next, Park Seon-joo, who is called a tiger judge for her outspoken harsh words, reveals that, contrary to her image, she is a mother who 100% accepts her daughter's opinions, saying that she is 'the leader of her daughter Kang Sol Amy.'
She explained that it was her daughter's decision to appear on 'Golden Counseling Center' and that it was also her daughter's decision to currently live in Jeju Island. He surprises everyone by revealing that he traveled to 10 countries so that his daughter could decide her own growth environment.
After hearing this, Dr. Oh Eun-young confirms that Park Seon-ju is a mother who respects her child's opinions. However, if you give all the decision-making authority to your child, he warns that the burden will build up on the child and he or she may become afraid of making decisions. He then advises Park Seon-ju that if you only provide a satisfactory state to your child, he or she may grow up to be unable to endure uncomfortable situations that he or she cannot choose. Park Sun-joo, who sympathizes with this, reveals an anecdote about Kangsol Amy's previous refusal to go to school, and shows her upset by saying that there was trouble among her friends and that she did not go to school because she lacked inner strength.
In response, MC Park Na-rae asks Kangsol Amy if she has ever been disappointed with her mother. Then Amy Kang Sol remembers the incident in which her mother did not attend the parent observation class. However, he explained that the reason his mother could not attend was because she was on a business trip to Japan, so she just said, “Please come back next time” and passed it on. Upon hearing this, Dr. Oh Eun-yeong notices that Kang Sol-Amy is engaging in 'reasoning', a defense mechanism that attempts to deal with problems through rational and intellectual analysis. Even though he feels sad that his mother did not come to the observation class, he is suppressing his feelings through 'Lee Ji-hwa'. Dr. Oh Eun-young warns that if a child grows up 'intelligent', even if he or she is a child with a lot of emotions, he or she may become a child who does not express his or her emotions later on.
When asked what Kangsol Amy thinks about living apart from her father, she replies, “I don’t think it’s a bad idea to live apart because it’s not necessary for the three of us to live together (with our parents).” He surprised everyone by saying, “It’s rather awkward when there are three of us, so people get noticed.” However, after hesitating for a moment, Amy Kangsol confesses her true feelings, saying, “When I see something my dad likes or something that resembles him, I think of him.”
It is also sad to say that he does not talk to his mother, Park Seon-ju, because he does not really need his father. After hearing this, Dr. Oh Eun-young advises that Park Seon-ju needs to tell her daughter that “anyone can feel upset.”
Next, Dr. Eun-young Oh said, “A parent’s view of education is a reflection of their own childhood experiences and thoughts,” and analyzed that Park Seon-ju’s acceptance of everything may be related to her childhood. It is said that by delving into Park Sun-joo's childhood, she discovered the reason why she had no choice but to accept her daughter. Expectations are high on what Dr. Oh Eun-young's special solution will be for the mother and daughter of Park Seon-joo and Kang Sol-Amy.
‘Oh Eun-young’s Golden Counseling Center’ airs every Tuesday at 8:10 p.m.
Taeyuna, Ten Asia Reporter youyou@tenasia.co.kr
