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Kim Seung-hyun was in tears after learning how his daughter Kim Soo-bin was feeling.








Kim Seung-hyun and Kim Soo-bin appeared as the second guests of the 'Family Reconciliation Project' on Channel A's 'Oh Eun-young's Golden Counseling Center', which aired on the 9th.
Kim Seung-hyun and Jang Jeong-yoon, who suffered from infertility, recently succeeded in becoming pregnant. The MCs of 'Golden Counseling Center' sent generous congratulations to Kim Seung-hyun and Jang Jeong-yoon. Kim Seung-hyun responded with a ceremony for the second generation. He also revealed the father's excitement as he waited for his second birthday by revealing an ultrasound photo of the fetus.
However, the warm atmosphere was short-lived as Kim Seung-hyun's daughter Kim Soo-bin confessed that she "feels jealous" of her 23-year-old younger brother who will be born soon. He expressed his confused feelings, saying, “The moment I admit the feeling of jealousy, I feel like I am becoming a bad person.” When a younger sibling is born, the family's attention and love will be poured on the younger sibling, but she said she heard many people say, "It was hard raising you," and she cried, saying, "I feel like I wasn't blessed by this family."
In addition, he expressed his concerns that since he lived with his grandparents since he was young, it was difficult and awkward to call Kim Seung-hyun "dad" or to make eye contact when they were alone together. Kim Soo-bin is not living with his stepmother Jang Jeong-yoon, who is 16 years older than him. He called Jang Jeong-yoon “sister” instead of “mom,” and said, “I’m cautious and it’s still awkward between us.”
Kim Soo-bin is said to have written in a sentence completion test that ‘what I felt was wrong when I was young’ was ‘what I was born to do.’ Kim Soo-bin said, “I thought about that a lot. I still do it sometimes.” Also, "I tend to listen to everything my grandmother says. The words she breathes are, 'Your father was popular, but that became that way after you were born. So, you have to do well.' I often thought, 'Is it a mistake that I was born?'" He confessed.
Eunyoung Oh analyzed, “Subin’s fundamental problem is fear.” He then explained, “In other words, this fear is the fear of being abandoned. It is called abandonment anxiety.” Kim Seung-hyun shed tears after learning about Kim Soo-bin's feelings.
Kim Seung-hyun said, "I thought Subin would go awry as he grew up in a single-parent family, so I pretended to be the villain. Then Subin said, 'Why do you come here sometimes and pretend to be my dad?' I thought Subin would understand my feelings even if I didn't say it." He confessed. However, "I was young at the time, so it was difficult for me to handle it. However, I loved Subin and worked hard until now with the thought of raising him well. I am sorry to Subin for not being able to be by his side when he was young. "I'm filled with resentment. If I could turn back time, I would have been by your side," he said, shedding tears of guilt.
Kim Seung-hyun's mother, Baek Ok-ja, who raised Kim Soo-bin, appeared in a video. Baek Ok-ja expressed her true feelings, saying, "I was happy that an angel who was like a daughter came to me after raising only a son. She was so pretty when I raised her. I didn't feel any hardship and raised her happily. I wanted to boast that I raised a granddaughter well in my life."
Kim Soobin also shed tears. He said, "I may be selfish, but honestly, I wish my sister or my father would approach me first. I also want the three of us to go out to play. I am the closest person, but I feel like I have been pushed out. I wish we could have a meal together."
Eunyoung Oh suggested a solution, saying, "Seunghyun Kim, communicate with Subin on the phone often. Even if you don't have anything to say, keep asking how she is doing. I hope you can talk to Subin at least once a day." He also said, "Write down the soon-to-be-born child's parenting diary and Subin's parenting diary together. I hope you can express your love for your second child in the same way to Subin."
Kim Ji-won, Ten Asia reporter bella@tenasia.co.kr